MEN PROPOSE BUT SOME WOMEN DETERMINE WHEN FOR SOME GUYS.

Only few ladies will agree with me that they are the ones who determine when their men propose to them with rings in their hands. Wisdom is profitable to direct so the Holy Bible puts it. You have been in that relationship for over a year, going to two, three years and yet the man has not proposed.

If you are truly sincere with yourself, you will realize that you already in your late 20s if not more and your so call guy is in his 30s. Then, what is the delay? Is it money which is usually the case for an average man? Are you sure you are not the cause? Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying some guys are not funny and wicked. Some of them are ready to delay some ladies unnecessary so that they can play around.

But let me face you as a lady and I want to assume your
guy is matured, God fearing and responsible enough to go with. I think you have not learnt how to commit your man into a marriage without having to influence the proposal directly. Your guy is not earning much and the wedding gowns your eyes always see in the market are the ones of 70k and above. He will just be looking at you. ooo ti ready! The only wedding you love to attend is the one that King sunny Ade comes around to play. you go teeee.

The only story you always have to share with him is the story of how your friend’s fiancé took her to Paris,Dubai,Mauritius etc for honeymoon and how her fiancé proposed to her at Sheraton, Golden Tulip. Four point, Orientals etc. hmmm i pity you.

The truth is, every man has this thing call ego and he will never allow you to drag it in the mud. That is why he has kept quiet on the proposal. You must be sensitive and matured as a woman in your thinking. No reasonable and God fearing man loves to keep his fiancée for too long if he truly loves and has the resources especially the financial strength to an extent to go all the way. If not for any anything but because of SEX. No man is a wood. Every man likes SEX. 

Every matured lady must learn to commit her man into marriage. The commitment here is not to be carrying his baby. anyone who does that will surely regret it in the end. You will only be dragging his body but his mind will be far from you. The commitment I mean here is character and frugality. You must learn to manage resources. If he is trying to suggest a wedding gown of 100k when it is obvious that he doesn’t really have the capacity, you should ask him “what for” cut the bill down even though you are the one that will wear it. 

If he is trying to initiate a wedding ceremony of 1Million Naira when his total worth at that point in time is just about 4Million. Shout at him, “what for”? How can he spend about 25% of his worth on a day event? He should rather present you a CRV Jeep on your Honeymoon.

Every man wants and loves to show off and at the same time he is looking for that woman that is frugal and ready to manage his resources. He always wants to spend to prove his ego and also looking for a lady that will shout at him by asking him “honey what for” that is the woman that will win his proposal in the end.

Two things are involved as reasons for his delay. One, it could be that he is still waiting for that time when he will have enough money to meet up with your friend’s fiancé standard. So, that Michael Jackson can come from the grave to sing. But that time may never come. The second reason could be that he is already on a search for another lady who doesn’t mind to wear a wedding gown between 40 and 50k and then have a car gift early in her Marriage. 

The choice is yours. There is nothing wrong if he takes you to Transcorp Hilton for an evening Buffett but always show him that you will not not hesitate if all he has is just mamaput owns by mama Ngozi on his street. Goodluk and dont be a learner.